it is just as you said. it was an ignorant person who could not accept they had done wrong so they were diverting the focus of attention onto you. you just have to keep telling yourself that over and over everytime you think about it. that this is not about you. it is about them. eventually it will get easier to let go. welcome to psych central. you will find that we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome