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I just found out by the woman's husband that they had planned to meet this week while my husband is out of town, and that they call and text message each other all the time. This just keeps getting worse. They haven't ever met, but I think some of this is just as bad. Help. What do I do?!

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I am sorry <font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font> - in this case I would say he has emotionally cheated on you and that he needs to be accountable for his action, even if they did not physical go a stray, for they were possibly heading that way (and) please know that you can save the marriage - if that is what you want.

IMO - there are three ways that one can cheat...... married or in a committed relationship

1. Physically (sex)

2. Emotionally (bonding to another that is not your spouse)

3. Visually (wanting & lusting after another that is not your spouse)