(((hugs))) Is there any way to give any alter an alternative way of self harm because of the added stress? "Just for now" maybe...make a deal or whatever... rewards for going each hour without? Sorry, trying to brain storm here.

I wouldn't worry so much about the staffers.. IF they want to help at all, just keep quiet if you can... maybe they will too? Try to act like you are doing better...even better than you know you are... like, I would be so much worse at home.... comments? IDK...

This is temporary, yes? Any more you can share would help. But I understand. Tell us some things you have tried, and what you want to try and want our opinions... maybe the ideas you get won't work but they might lead to something that will!

TC