you need to listen to that teen and say no to the workaholic because otherwise you are going to be on leave again. you have to find a way to say no to work and enjoy yourself and have fun. you need to find balance in life. you know what the outcome will be if you work too hard. you have already described some of the negative effects that are already taking place. give yourself a break. play, have fun. give yourself permission to only work partime or you wont be working at all again. take care