I just want to say, you're not a failure and this situation isn't my fault. It's kind of eerie to read about your situation because at the time your work wants to lay you off, I was laid off last year. When I told people, they acted exasperated or even yelled at me! I told my mother that I got laid off and she acted like I was a failure and it was my fault! I couldn't believe it. I mean really who imagines getting laid off in their 20's?? Who imagines a lay off, period???

There is a sheer lack of compassion and empathy to those who have lost their jobs. I think people are treating it like it's like the common cold but losing your job has so many ramifications. Financially you suffer, personally, with friends, etc. It affects your whole life.

Is there a dislocated worker program you can join through the workforce center? I would talk to them about your options and what kind of resources are out there. Help DOES exist, but you have to ask the right people and ask the right questions.