hi addamsfamily
it sounds like you place a lot of judgement on her based on the fact that she has had sex before you. this will forever interfere with your relationship if you cant let these judgements go. she is not less of a person because she is not a virgin, nor does this make her morally corrupt. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome.