Um, a question? If you disagree to such an extent, are your views just as extreme as his?

Honestly, it really depends on how much I respect the person with this type of personality. Some people are type A, because they are truly intelligent enough to be type A. That is not saying they are always right. Most of the time, it is because they are not sensitive enough for us. After all, if you believed something whole-heartedly, would you not fight to the death, so to speak?

I tried thinking about what I do in these situations. What I came up with, for me, was that the majority of the things that he will not compromise on are the things that he has great(er) knowledge in, compared to me. On the other hand, ego plays a big part in type A people. For ones that are truly intelligent, they are often forced into deeper and deeper explanations (and sometimes, it can go far beyond what can comprehend anyway, making it even more difficult to understand).

Some, of course, just have no fear whatsoever! That is cool in it's own right, too, because one could look at it as being solid in their beliefs. A quality rare in this day and age (even if it is misguided).

As long as it is not demanded that I HAVE to believe all that he is saying, then I am pretty much ok with that (unless, of course, it totally goes against my personal belief system).

If I cannot accept, in any way, his point of view, then I doubt he could remain my friend for very long. Like-minded ones attract each other - even when opinions seem to be opposite!

If it becomes a real drag and it is bringings one down, then it is probably not a good fit anyway, or it is just too much for one to really want to deal with (some people are just TOO MUCH)!

Personally, my opposite really is not that opposite. We always seem to be saying the same thing - it just takes alot of debating to finally realize we are actually agreeing with each other. He comes from a purely logical/mathematical realm whereas I come from the purely emotional/spiritual/fantiasical realm when we first begin any discussion.

It's really mind expanding when one gives time and effort to really understand what the other is trying to say...sometimes

AS