wisewoman, I am so sorry to hear that. Life has a way of being particularly cruel sometimes.

You asked how can you help them...but what you are doing by just being there for them, and showing how much you love and care for the whole family, may be more help than you know.

You will all be in my prayers.

*hugs*
Jo

<font color=green> If she spins fast enough then maybe the broken pieces of her heart will stay together, but even a gyroscope can't spin forever</font color=green>