Hello!
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My name is Edward,I am 14 and I am in Tennessee. I had a very happy family-Dad,Momqtwins-sisters younger than me.Everything was OK but 6 months ago it turned upside dawn.A stranger put his finger in our life.He had a short time sexual affair with my mother which resulted in my sisters.Because Tennessee Code require that the legal father is only the biological father without meaning other factors and wishes such as the wish of my father to remain their legal father if this man went away of our life,the judge granted him this legal status and ordered to change my sisters'last name,granted him visitation rights.The situation became worse...Besides that this man visited our neighbours and my father's colleagues and explained them all that because my Dad is 'an impotent b*stard and a very beautiful gay"/that is not true of course/ he is'the real man because he impregnated my mother with twins'...Everyone laughed at my Dad and everyone did sneers at him.My grandparents asked him to leave this dirthy ******...Soon my parents got divorced.Now I live with my mother and my sisters.I know my Dad is in Psychiatric clinic and my sisters'new 'legal' father is in jail for robbery and drugs and he will stay there for 18 years.Our family broke dawn.I don't know where the problem is-in the Code,in adult's behavior or other...My mother became a histerical person and my sisters are in depression.I am trying to be the man in the house,I want to help all-to help my mother,father and sisters because I love them all.Unfortunatelly I don't know how to do it.I tried to ask my school psychologist but she told me,'What do you think about pets?Do you like cats or dogs?'...Our social worker suggest my father to adopt my sisters and to create the old family unit but it souns as to make chops by lamb and after that to make lamb by chops...
I feel powerless and helpless myself.Please give me an idea how to move out of this situation.Please help me!Please!Please!Please!
Thank you in advance and best wishes to all.
Ed