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Originally Posted by addamsfamily
I have been in love with this girl for long. I knew that she was a bit "loose" with boys. She will date anyone. But I love her. She has never cheated on me. But her past breaks me and makes me lose my temper with her always. All her exes have said that she has had sex with them multiple times although she says that it happened only with one of her exes. I was a virgin when I met her 
We've had sex. She never enjoys sex with me as she is not a virgin. We fight everyday. How can I end my pain. I love her but for her past. In the end, she is a city girl. Can't expect much values. How can I deal with this. How can girls behave so? |
Did you have sex before you met her? Even if not, the fact is that most adult women you meet will have had sex before you. Not only that, she ws with these other guys so clearly, it was in context of a relationship and I'd worry more if she had exes but never had sex with them.
How in the world does her having sex before you met her have anything to do with your relationship now? You need to ask yourself this. If she's not having sex with others now, then it's not even your place to judge.
Lastly and more importantly, get the friggin word "loose" out of your head, it's derogatory and rude to judge her and call her names like that. If you care about this girl you won't judge her past. Period. Get past this or get out. She deserves better.