I wish I had words of wisdom for you guys. There was a time I was no longer attracted to my husband. I had to force myself to have sex with him mostly because it put him in a better mood. I never ever would tell that to him in his face. I know I was not interested in sex.

What changed? Good question...I got older, the kids are teenagers, with medication changes I lost a tons of weight and feel better about myself....I guess a little of everything.

All in all with the weight loss I have a better self image. He was and is really good about not telling me I look good or pretty. He never has been one to compliment me. I hear from other people and my kids that I am really pretty. So her self image is important.

Do you guys have common interests? Do you enjoy camping (or like I call it motor-homing), rock climbing, going to theater and seeing plays (hole in the wall theaters are awesome and cheaper) dancing, comedy clubs, bowling...... can you get involved in a activity together, a common interest. Go hiking, something about that fresh air can totally trigger some hormones. What did you guys do when you were dating. Plan a date but dont tell her where your going, just tell her how to dress. Hubby did this to me a week before our date. I was so excited. I started counting down the days! He took me to see Zoobas which is an African performing group that does gymnastic and dance. Awesome night.

Anyway I hope I helped. Hugs guys, Im sorry you are going through this.