Hi I hope you are felling better today people that dont understand what we feel like everyday have different wasy of shutting it out I have the same thing from my husband he loves me as I am when we got married I was 10 1/2 stone & happy about the way I was then I had my boys & I started to hate my body I was fat so I lost weight I went down to 8 1/2 stone that was ok for a while then the weight went up a bit to 9st 13lb thats when I got my problem I wanted to lose a bit of weight & I just couldnt stop from there anyway if I say anything now about my weight I just get what ever are we going back there again are we & things like that they really hurt as you will know but as he has always been fine with how he looks he just cant get his head round it I hope that you get there with your mum soon

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