Hmmmm!one thing i know well is that nobody is ever perfect and everybody has an experience,wether gud or bad one way or the othe,i'v had mine own emotional abuse to from my dad who seem to have taken control of the whole family with fear,everybody shivers wen he comes in and all,he get you on the slightest wrong?you are sure to here going to get the possible best of hell beating.but all in all i belive we'll need to move on and build in ourselve a strong confident fire wall that it get beter as the day goes by.reading this i must confess realy make me fell that i was never abused at all by my dad,but hey i hav a word for you tho,and that is you are a better person if you can learn to move on and the most importantly?forgive,cos that really relieves you of all the thought and burdens sumhow.