My Husband is depressed. Over the past 2 years his moods have totally changed and I feel he's been a completely different person. He never seems satisfied/happy with anything. It's become quite difficult for me to be around him at times because I never know what will get under his skin. One day he will be on cloud 9 and we'll have a great day together, then the next I feel like we are strangers. He has acknowledged in the past that he has issues but he has never seen nor will he see a Dr. about it. It's really become draining, not only on our marriage but I worry about our kids as well. I'm really lost and I don't know how to approach this with him without him getting defensive. He needs help and quite honestly I find myself battling the blues now as well because I just don't feel like I can make him happy. I've had panic attacks and anxiety issues just trying to cope and meet demands. I just can't do this anymore. Can anyone offer advice/suggestions on how to talk to him about getting help? Thanks in advance!