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Old Jul 12, 2003, 06:29 PM
umotard umotard is offline
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Boyfriends. Those things suck! lol Trust me, he's new and exciting. He'll get old. All my friends have had boyfriends and I swear I've hated them all. Some with better reason than others. As for groups. Me too, I more of a one on one kind of person. I don't think that there is anything wrong with that, personally it helps me to be 10X better a friend to someone than the average joe. The con, as you have said: not too many people go for that. What college do you go to? Maybe there is a group that you could get into that has the same interests that you do. Personally, I prefer the paintball club. Or maybe it doesn't have to be through school. You like church, get more involved. Something I know for me that will help me to make more friends with my same interests is police explorers. And don't forget that they don't have to be the one to invite you first. Get ten of them together and say hey, let's go to Six Flags (or whatever theme park you have by you). Just because you are in a group doesn't mean that you have to entertain all of them by yourself at one time. Don't worry, they can entertain themselves. Focus on hanging with one at a time. That way you have one on one time with each one of them and they see what a great person you can really be. Or, do something out of the norm. Find a college party and go (be careful though, them things can get pretty wild). But step out. Maybe you'll find this easier to do with strangers because they don't know your personality and you don't have to see any of them again if you don't feel like it.

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