You gotta have a good match. If this other T is a better match for you, then it's in your best interest to look deeper into that. I couldn't see a T I couldn't hug after a bad session. Actually, she hugs me after every session. I also would have a hard time if there was to be NO communication between sessions. My T welcomes, and claims to love, Emails. I just saw her yesterday for the last time for two weeks (vacation). When she gets back I'll be seeing her twice a week. She made sure to let me know I am welcome to Email her anytime I need within that two week span. It is reassuring, and touching, but knowing the day she leaves and comes back, I don't intend to bother her during that time. She knows the timing isn't great, I'm in a rough spot right now, but she deserves this well-earned time off....perhaps more than anyone.

Really, this is a business deal. It doesn't feel that way, but if you think of it as such, and think about what's best for YOU, it will make it easier.