How could she even think about something like that?! I hope that My kids are cool is right and it is even illegal... I did it to my exT, when I started having problems with him, I contacted another T and met with her but told that I just needed a consultation because I was not sure if I had a reason to leave my T or if my expectations were just too high... And she is my current great T right now... But she would never think about letting know my previous T about it! She suggested, however, that she could help me to prepare to letting knoe exT that I wanted to leave him if I was anxious about it... This "new" T is terrible in my opinion...