LOL you would never confront anyone would you Septie??
I think the chat would be a good trainer in the use of "I" statements. So even if we were to discuss, for example, our feelings about the Resurrection, it would all be, "I feel" "I think" " It affects Me this way." THEN if we can keep from remarking negatively about someone elses comment (don't say, Well I don't think that it affects me that way... etc)
things might just work
We could do topics... of course... wait... it would still have to be off the cuff though.
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