What I mean is, if Chartres was her patient, then that T cannot disclose anything to anyone without consent, even that she's going there. But, since Chartres is NOT this T's patient, unfortunately, this (morally wrong) T can legally tell the T that Chartres contacted her. I would run from this one. There is NO reason she should have to tell the other T. You were just asking for info, not asking for an appt!! Run and don't look back...