Supernova,

I am so sorry you are going through this tough time. I just got out of the psych ward and there was a girl in for a breakup with her boyfriend. I know mental issues makes me ultra sensitive, and the times my marriage has been stressed were very scary. I did get staples for my self injury and told the ER doctor it was an accident. I have met people in the hospital who didn't get stiches/staples, and their scars were more pronounced than mine and I have keloid scars. Over time they really faded, but I totally understand if you don't feel comfortable.

I also had a mirena IUD and it was very painful. Also, my boyfriend could feel it when we had sex. Having it removed was the best thing I did, and it was not painful.

Big Hugs,

tnt