Thanks for the links Alison. Could use any online resources like that. I've been meaning to check some out, but... Before the fire we were working on some things I had printed and out of some school books he had brought home. I know I do need to get myself feeling better in order to be able to work with him - tell that to my parents, though!! To them he comes first before anything. He needs to see a doctor to be referred to an ADHD doctor as well, and they've been on my case to do that, too, but when I think about getting into all that I get really anxious. Just feels like so much at the moment. My husband won't help with him. Have tried that before. He doesn't really take a whole lot of interest in him in that way. As far as wrestling and playing on the floor or having him go along with him somewhere, okay, but he doesn't do much else with him. I don't really know many of the parents of kids in his class, but I do want to get more involved this next year. Thanks for the suggestions. I do feel so alone in so many ways.