Ahh... yes... my feelings for my former T were increased when I told her I was afraid to come out, and her response was somewhat of, "And stay single forever? But you are so beautiful..." Her reaction completely threw me off (especially because she knew my feelings and continued to compliment me) So I said I didn't have self-esteem issues (and she agreed) ... too bad all the feelings got too much and she couldn't work with me, otherwise I would have liked to explore her responses!