Thanks evry one am so happy to finally find a related situation as mine,and am happy 2 hear all answers on this page.the problem is that i have tried evrything here and even the slightest thought of having to stay wit this untrollable feelings forever?it makes me want to just drive a drug into my stomach and just sleep off forever cos believe me people i'v have been trying to get her out of my heard for long,i got a job to get busy,i try as much as possible to have a social life,but it impossible this thing is shutting me down people and i need serious help with it,i cant see,watch or read aboout a love story without thinking of how it cud have bin with her,at the same time i cant fight to get her back cos it has been more than a year and the feeling of rejection could possibly just send me forever into a solitary world forever,i dont mingle with my friends anymore like before bcos of this war inside,i am hard in emotions to other girls who come closer to me,the only to person i feel love with now is my baby mother and baby sister who i named after my ex,everything is just so hurting me.plsssssssz wot can i doooooo