I get where you're coming from.

Me, I've always just assumed it'll be a time when I stop hating myself and stop thinking everything I do is wrong. Maybe it's something different? Maybe it's one of those insubstantial things that is different for everyone.

You mentioned over thinking. Do you know where that's coming from?

For me over thinking usually comes from doubting me and/or my ability. I question whether or not I know if I'm right/ doing the right thing/ not being a total stuff up/ going to make things worse and a million other thoughts.

Are you doubting yourself when you're over thinking? Maybe a little more faith in yourself/abilities could be a starting point?

Something that just popped into my head. Trusting ones self. Do you need to trust yourself for self confidence? (That's a legitimate question. Now I'm confused lol)