Looking at replies I can't but think even more, normal is just a sort of random concept. In today's world it is "normal" to be outgoing bordering to pushy and aggressive, selfishness is very normal. There has been times in the past where self control, introversion and selflessness was THE thing. I don't think we do us any good trying to be like the times think we should be, and it does us good knowing we are not wrong in a larger perspective if we are responsible introverts. Realizing history was important to me, realizing how other people live than the Western world, too.

And I do think it also does us harm to think our ideals is the normal. That our dreams coming true is the normal. Like, if things happen to interfere, instead of sadness of the lost dream, we feel scorned, because the NORMAL should be GIVEN US for free!!! A healthier approach I think is to call a dream a dream, an ideal an ideal, and health health.

Hope I'm not sounding like an idiot here.