no no, you're fine! we do that! next time you go tell him of your reaction and tell him the things you wish you'd said. topics are never closed, and that is one of the good things about therapy!

i just now came from my session and have decided i will write/journal right my sessions to help with just what you describe. and next week i will say that i thought more about this or that topic and i have more to say. i may even contradict what i said today in session but that's ok.

i'm so glad you found someone you like!