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Originally Posted by FatPenguin
This does not sound good.
I'd say a couple of possibilities. Knowing men, he's trying to talk to as many women as possible. Maybe another one he was talking to showed some interest and they hooked up before you did with him. It's even possible he liked you a lot and got freaked out, as you two seemed to have a connection.
Whatever the case, wait and hope he goes back. If he doesn't, **** him -- figuratively. **** him. If he treats you like you're second choice all of a sudden, treat him like he's last.
Example: girl I'm talking to quite a bit abruptly stops writing. Then TEN DAYS PASS, and she writes me all sort of "interested" again and CLAIMS her "email wouldn't send her reply" to me (suuuure). She said yahoo email wouldn't send it. Mmmk.
I get the feeling she had another guy on the hook, didn't/wasn't going as she expected, now she's back to me. I really think that's the case. If someone wants to talk to you, THEY WILL. She'd have used a different email, if it wasn't working, to get the message through.
If a guy doesn't treat you like you're number one, move on. I know it's hard because that puts that insecure feeling inside of you, like "What's wrong with me?" Just move on (says the guy who can't move on from the girl currently not caring about him).
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I agree with everything FP said, but particularly the lines I highlighted..kind of reminds me of that movie, 'he's just not that into you'. I used to stress out too, but not anymore. I generally keep myself from becoming emotionally invested for quite awhile when dating someone, no matter how special the connection seems. And sometimes, BECAUSE of how special it seems.
If he bailed before the third date could come about, and has been distant, just walk away. Even if he's been 'busy'...walk away. There's an old saying: "A relationship will end, how it started."
In this case, his treatment of you, just promises a bad, sad, avoidant laden ending. Walk away.