I've known all along that difficult things happen to her and she has bumps just like me and everyone. What was more of a learning curve was that she's not going to handle every situation well. One of the first things that she said to me that about this was how she sometimes snaps at her mom and can even feel bad about it. Then I also saw sometimes that in session she would do or say something that she would later apologize for and might not be the most sympathetic (though she usually is very sympathetic). So, it's more the fact that while she's a great person and a great therapist she doesn't practice what she preaches 100% of the time--she's human just like me... I completely get this now for the last couple of years, but it did come as a little bit of a surprise.