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Has anyone ever told their T something that ruined the relationship?
I mentioned in an earlier thread I saw something on T’s facebook page that was unsettling to me and I think I need to talk to her about it. As part of this, I feel like I want to confess to stalking her facebook page on an hourly basis for MONTHS. I have a sick obsession. I think underlying all of this is that deep down I want to be friends more than t/client. Which I know is not possible. I think that underlying feeling keeps me from opening up completely in therapy b/c I’m scared to get close to her since I want that more than anything. I think it’s a conversation deep down I know I need to have and the facebook discovery is prompting it at the moment. But it sickens to me to think about telling her this.
I have a feeling this situation teeters on being really good and us being closer, or her thinking it’s best if we end things. So it could have a really good outcome, or a really, really bad outcome.
So, back to my question… has anyone said something that ruined the relationship, and part of you regrets it? I don’t know what to do…..
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