Just to follow on from A Red Panda, i find conventionality totally vomit worthy. I don't want marriage, or kids, or have someone else as my boss, or be one of those people who think misery is a sin. I want my own life, defined by my own standards. Many others i see following these trends feel dreadful and are made worse by feeling they can't show it. Lets stop to think of all the people who don't really love the person they're married too, don't really want the kids they have, don't really want to go to university, don't really want to be an executive etc. etc. I wonder how the world would be different if people just did what they could and not what they felt they should.

If this is normal then quite frankly i'm relieved i'm not.