It depends on who you ask and when you ask.

I'm permanently screwed up and my house of cards isn't exactly going to collapse in tomorrow. Your future, no offense, is more uncertain than mine at the moment. At least my housing is stable and so is my income, yours....

Thanks for asking but my problems can wait a while. I know it sounds weird, but they've been waiting for 6 months. It will be another month before I see a urologist and who knows when they will test to see what is causing the pain. When my name comes up, then I will discuss my problems but before there is little point to it but to give you guys a daily play by play and more depressing poetry.

There is a thing more crippling than cerebral palsy: the prison of your own mind.