Sjkero, don't forget how you say something can make a difference. You feel you are stalking but that is putting your perception on your behavior. I would try to discuss the behavior without judging it? "Hey, T, I have spent an awful lot of time reading your Facebook page" is not the same as, "Hey, T, I've been stalking you, compulsively going to your Facebook page every hour." The first one is more likely to get a good conversation going where you can talk about wanting to be closer to her but not knowing how and what you feel might be helped by such closeness, where it is coming from in your life, etc.?