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Originally Posted by waiting4
I agree with everything FP said, but particularly the lines I highlighted..kind of reminds me of that movie, 'he's just not that into you'. I used to stress out too, but not anymore. I generally keep myself from becoming emotionally invested for quite awhile when dating someone, no matter how special the connection seems. And sometimes, BECAUSE of how special it seems.
If he bailed before the third date could come about, and has been distant, just walk away. Even if he's been 'busy'...walk away. There's an old saying: "A relationship will end, how it started."
In this case, his treatment of you, just promises a bad, sad, avoidant laden ending. Walk away.
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Wow I'm surprised at how easily you're dismissive of this guy. I mean, even if he's busy? Come on, life happens and sometimes it takes us away from the fun of it, including new loves. Fact is, if it is a new love interest, the bond may not be as strong as it would be later and other things still may take precedence over his dating life. That in no way says that he's not interested in her anymore nor does it say that he's not worth it.
I don't think that she should so easily write him off. He hasn't done anything horribly wrong at this point.