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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Wow I'm surprised at how easily you're dismissive of this guy. I mean, even if he's busy? Come on, life happens and sometimes it takes us away from the fun of it, including new loves. Fact is, if it is a new love interest, the bond may not be as strong as it would be later and other things still may take precedence over his dating life. That in no way says that he's not interested in her anymore nor does it say that he's not worth it.
I don't think that she should so easily write him off. He hasn't done anything horribly wrong at this point.
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Write him off? Not exactly what I meant but I can see it seeming like that. What I mean is walk away....do not pursue. If he IS still interested, let him show you he is by making contact...but it seems counter-productive and a little desperate to keep texting, or emailing or haunting facebook (all of which she may or may not have done). What I see in her question is confusion...and a little desperation.
And for her own bruised self-esteem, she needs to quit that.