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Originally Posted by waiting4
Write him off? Not exactly what I meant but I can see it seeming like that. What I mean is walk away....do not pursue. If he IS still interested, let him show you he is by making contact...but it seems counter-productive and a little desperate to keep texting, or emailing or haunting facebook (all of which she may or may not have done). What I see in her question is confusion...and a little desperation.
And for her own bruised self-esteem, she needs to quit that.
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Nothing in her Op has stated she is incessantly texting or stalking his fb. this is purely an assumption. It seems to me more that she's questioning based on the fact that it's been longer than expected to hear from* him but beyond that I don't see an active or obsessive pursuit. Whether she is doing so or not is something unanswered and I'm sure she can say if that's true or not but at this point there is no evidence of that. I dont' see desperation in her actions at all just that she's feeling a little insecure because he stopped talking to her.
*added note. if I were on a couple of dates, someone had talked to me regularly following and it suddenly stopped for a longer period, I would wonder myself. Nothing in that speaks to being desperate, but having been hopeful something was happening and fearful of the prospect that it may not work out.