My T's FB page is 'locked up' tight. In hindsight, I'm glad. I don't need to be looking, I think it will just be painful. When I finally admitted to snooping it was a huge relief. He wasn't phased and told me it's really really common. The frequency of it might be a bit disturbing for her but I think you owe it to yourself to find out what's behind it and work towards getting past the urge to look. Why not start by telling her you've looked and leave the frequency part aside to gauge her reaction?

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