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Old Jun 26, 2014, 12:48 PM
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I was a hard core alcoholic for 17 years. I got sober and stayed sober in AA. The concept there is that I was powerless over alcohol. Meaning I could not possibly quit under my own power. I needed lots of help. So in my opinion your father has to really want to stop for himself and get help to do it. I was powerless because the mental obsession to start drinking was bigger than my will power to not drink. Once I started, on most occasions, I could not stop. There is actually a biological reason for the not being able to stop part.

With my Dad we did a professional intervention and it worked. Look it up.
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