Thanks for this. You're right, I need to leave the frequency out of it.
As with any obsession, I do it because I LOVE it. I LOVE seeing pics of her and I LOVE seeing the fun things she does in real life. I am 100% convinced that my T will change her facebook settings as soon as I tell her this. And I know I shouldn't take it personal, but I will
What if I get really mad at her for it? It kills me to think that I may no longer have an inside glimpse into her life... I need it:/ I got a taste and now my craving is stronger than ever. For this reason alone, I hesitate to tell her. I need to see the pics and the posts...
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Originally Posted by Mactastic
My T's FB page is 'locked up' tight. In hindsight, I'm glad. I don't need to be looking, I think it will just be painful. When I finally admitted to snooping it was a huge relief. He wasn't phased and told me it's really really common. The frequency of it might be a bit disturbing for her but I think you owe it to yourself to find out what's behind it and work towards getting past the urge to look. Why not start by telling her you've looked and leave the frequency part aside to gauge her reaction?
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