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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
I've never enjoyed having sex with another person (although, to be fair, I've never tried actual intercourse yet). It's just something you're forced into doing by the guy…even when they KNOW you have a problem with it, they still ask to kiss you (did I mention that I don't enjoy kissing either?). All sex is is a power play, a way to control and manipulate another person. And everything is assumed to be a yes! Even if you initially say "no", it just means they need to push you harder!!! How can ANYONE enjoy sex?! I have no idea.
And I've never been in an actual relationship either…I would assume it just gets worse when you belong to someone. Then if you don't do everything sexually for them, then you're an awful person. I guess we all have to do our chores…
But we sure as hell won't do them with a smile on our face.
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Sex is a blessing. It supposed to be enjoyable with your partner in life. It is a loving, caring, passionate, connection that God has blessed us with. It is not about power, its about connecting and loving that person very much. Sex is so much better with my husband then anyone else I have slept with.
I dont know how old you are but some day I hope you can experience the wonderfulness it holds.