I would say it's very important for me, because I get a great feeling out of knowing that she has reached that place of pleasure. I try to make her orgasm first before doing anything for myself. Usually after that happens, she then is so happy that she then turns her attention to me and then tries to give me as much pleasure in return, all out of her own, without me even wanting/asking for/expecting it. It makes the whole overall experience just amazing.

Sadly, the only regret I have, is that I only ever have one-night stands or sex-buddy type of arrangements. There are several reasons for this, and I've never ever had a girlfriend. And, without love, the whole experience is great but not as great as it can be. I've reached a stage now where I don't even want to have sex, because I no longer get enjoyment out of it, as a matter of fact I never did. All the physical pleasure is there, but no love.