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Wow, everybody seems to be all over this with sweetness, but I the one of cynicism am here, with a failed marriage chocked full of infidelities, to shed some light on this unfortunate and potentially dangerous subject.

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I understand where you are coming from here having had a husband that actually cheated on you sexually and for that I am sorry...... ((( hugs ))).

BUT - I have to say: I do not think we are sugar coating this matter with sweetness, for in all honesty we cannot / should not jump to any wrongs conclusions for all we have been told about this matter is that he has been chatting online with a woman - so until some thing else is proven (God forbid) we should not over react or assume some thing is happening or has happened...... and I speak from personally experience here, for while chatting may have taken place for several month no sexual activity ever did.