Exes sometimes pop up into people's lives. They get dealt with and then things move on. If she was to leave you for them, then she does. But here's the thing - those relationships are over with. For whatever reasons. They're done. They're the past.

If those exes bring out photos of them together? So what? People take pictures with their partners all the time. If you're talking just sexual ones, then I would hope that she would take them from him.

It will not ruin a family. It would only have the potential to ruin a job depending on what career she went into - but most of them it would be fine. You're the only one who is ruining things..

The fact that you think she should be glad that you've stayed with her "in spite" of her past... is ridiculous. She shouldn't have to even consider if her past would be an issue to you - the fact that it IS an issue to you.... means that she's chosen to stay with you despite your paranoid possessiveness. She's the one doing you a favour, not you doing her one. She could easily find many different guys to have relationships with her who wouldn't even blink an eye at her past.