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Jun 27, 2014, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by wajula

hello all..thanks for taking the time out to read my post

im going through a very confusing time in my relationship with my boyfriend..sigh..he says he loves me but honestly I don't think he really loves me the way he says he does...his roommate disrespected me, I went over to my bf house and his roommate came outside im guessing he was getting ready to go to work..he came up to my car and said hello. We chatted for a little and then he proceeds to show me his std test results??? I was taken aback because we do not have a relationship like that..he then proceeds to tell me how he is with a lot of females and he likes to hit it raw and blah blahblah a lot of unnecessary things that I didn't need to know.. I don't know if he was testing me or what...it was just way tooo much info. anyway I mentioned to my bf about his roommate showing me his test results and the first thing my bf says is 'are you fng him'? I couldn't believe he asked me that...I was going to tell him about the other things that was said to me but I fell back...I didn't mention it until the following week..couldn't hold it in..i felt guilty...I told him bits n pieces because I couldn't remember it all... long story short we got into a heated argument I felt as if he didn't believe anything I was saying to him so I hung up on him...after a couple days we made up...but not one time did he mention the situation. I would always have to bring it up..to see if he talked to the guy or not..its just so weird..it makes me very uncomfortable. he says to me that his roommate is going to apologies to me...then he says his roommate tells him all he said was something that he said to me a week after the incident.... my boyfriend end up sending me a picture of his roommate with a bloody face...the caption read this is what happens to anyone who lies to me and disrespects my girlfriend...it was a fake picture I know it was...he says he got it off his roommates instagram..but little do he knows I checked his rm instagram as soon as he sent it to me....smh....he lied to me and then broke up with me because I would not drop the situation...I am currently back with him but having a hard time trusting him...I wasn't trying to break his friendship up..all I wanted was some reassurance...help me please

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your bf and the rm are losers. GET out of the situation. I guarantee it's not the last time things get messy like this. Your bf is a potential abusive man in that he's using threatening, even violent pictures to verbalize his feelings. That's particularly scary even if they were faked pics.

I would have left the instant he turned the situation on you and asked if you were having sex with his room mate. That right there was a line that should not have been crossed. it was uncalled for, there was nothing in what you were sharing that would make anyone in their right mind jump to that conclusion.

Not sure why you're back with him. He's liked, disrespected you, caused all kinds of pain, and on top of that, what kind of redeeming qualities does he even have that make you want to endure all that ?