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Originally Posted by addamsfamily
@above: Are u a guy? Hmmm.. Sure her past is her past. But what about the people she has been with? What if they come back and she leaves me or worse - cheats on me?
What if they bring out photos of them together or worse?
It will ruin a family. Blackmail, infidelity, etc.
At the very least, she can be honest to me because I haven't left her in spite of her past. Will any other guy knowingly accept her?
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1. yes I'm a guy.
What if, what if what if? You know what? this has nothing to do with her but everything to do with your own insecurities and even more reason you need to cut this off and let her find a man that has security in himself and knowing that if he's with a girl she's his girlfriend and none of the rest of it matters. Deal with reality not the "omg she has a past, what could happen if... " you'll drive yourself insane thinking about the what ifs.
What if she were a shoplifter in the past? OmG someday someone she stole from could come bak and haunt her
What if she smoked weed in the past? Omg something from her drug days could crop up and she could become part of the seedy (sarcasm here) drug world again.
Her past is gone. you need to accept what she is NOW or get out. She is not obligated to share it, nor does she need forgivness from you.
I suggest you get help from a t for your possessive and controlling tendencies.