I don't think he was expecting sex. I get the sense that if I were easy, that would have scared the life out of him. There's something quite awkward about him. I actually let him know before the date that I wouldn't be inviting him in. I made a comment in an e-mail (when we were discussing what movie to see) that it would be easier to rent a DVD, but my flat is such a mess I wouldn't allow another human in here right now. So, he knew he wasn't getting invited in. He didn't even try to kiss me (I kissed him good night -- quick peck on the check). My friends have said he seems somewhat asexual to them. I dunno. He doesn't seem to have any friends either so maybe he was just looking for a friend the whole time he was getting to know me.

I was the one who asked him out. When we went out with my friend and her fiance on my birthday, he drove me home and mentioned a couple of times that we needed to do it again, just the two of us... I said I'd like that so I e-mailed him a few days later and suggested a movie and he e-mailed back and said he would love to... and then we spent the week e-mailing back and forth making plans for Saturday night. He doesn't make sense to me... and I really don't know why I'm obsessing over all of this.