Intetesting question. I am sort of clingy. At least that is how I want to be. On the other hand I often find myself at a distance from others, but I dont want that distance. I seem to be the opposite of what I want .

I guess I meant I am not as close to others as I would like to be. The distance I perceive is not what I want, but due to emotional issues I seem to isolate myself. I want to be more sociable, but struggle in so many areas that it takes up so much time just to take care of myself.

Fuzzy, I am really not sure what you were pondering, but that is my understanding of it. Sorry if I did not "get it" . .