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Originally Posted by addamsfamily
I have been in love with this girl for long. I knew that she was a bit "loose" with boys. She will date anyone. But I love her. She has never cheated on me. But her past breaks me and makes me lose my temper with her always. All her exes have said that she has had sex with them multiple times although she says that it happened only with one of her exes. I was a virgin when I met her 
We've had sex. She never enjoys sex with me as she is not a virgin. We fight everyday. How can I end my pain. I love her but for her past. In the end, she is a city girl. Can't expect much values. How can I deal with this. How can girls behave so?
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i think that it is strange that you are worried about her past, what is done is done..why does this bother you so? what does it matter what this woman has done b4 you came along? do you think she "knew" she was going to meet you and somehow save herself for you? listen to what you are saying, it sounds strange and unusual, thank goodness most women i know don't have your views about men if they did i suppose i would be undateable! perhaps you are inexperienced and therefore she feels you don't know what you are doing? whether she is from the city or the country or the moon has nothing to do with her "values" whatever that is supposed to mean. just so you know, many people male and female are having sex these days..turn on your television and you will see it glorified consistently..doesn't make it right or wrong, it just is.
i for one have been with many women, so what a woman has done b4 she met me is none of my business, nor do i ask about or care, it's before i came a long..do i want to hear about it NO..so guess what i don't ask. NEVER ask questions you don't want the answers to and your life will be much easier my friend. relax before you run this poor thing off, this isn't 1495 or the 1200's where people used to believe that women were "property" or some other ridiculous belief. get over yourself before you send her running for the hills.
she has never cheated on you so why are you giving her a hard time? let it go B4 SHE LETS YOU GO.. if you love her stop this nonsense. i hope you listen to me..i'm trying to help you.
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