Quote:
Originally Posted by addamsfamily
I find it weird that all of you take her side. Being a guy, how can I be with a girl who has been touched by others? Won't she cheat on me surely? I can't stop thinking of her. She means more to me than my family. But all these mental images of her being with other men is killing me. She refuses to give her old photos, computer data, passwords, mobile, etc. I am so scared that she will leave me.
How can I marry her. Her exes will all tease and make fun of me. And more than this, she yells at me when I question her past - if she can't even be quiet and listen to 30% of what I say, how can she be a wife? I am pretty sure that guys will understand my feelings  I feel like it is my fate to love a bad girl |
addams.. i have to tell you, you are being unrealistic and out of touch with reality. i'm going to assume your inexperience with women is making you behave this way. i am trying not to insult you, but to talk some sense into you before you run your girl off.
many women and men have been "touched by others" and things didn't work out. consider this..if you break up with her.. won't you have been "touched by another?" how could another woman accept you then? right?
why should she give you all these passwords and all these other things? you my friend are VERY, VERY insecure. not trying to be mean just speaking the truth, you say you are so scared she will leave you..dude..you are making it happen, stop with this nonsense or you'll be starting another thread titled "why did she leave me"
why do you give a f**K what her EX"S ( notice i put that in capitals, because she is not with them and is with you) say, think or do..they want her back, so you are pushing her to them with your insecurity. she is with YOU as in Y-O-U.
my friend if you want it to stay that way , the silliness needs to stop.
why should she be quiet? she is not a dog or any other pet, everyone is entitled to a say so and an opinion. (doesn't make it right) but EVERYONE is entitled to speak their mind, friend. what if she wanted YOU to be quiet & listen to her?? do you do that? just curious.
listen my friend, i'm a guy and plenty of women will vouch for that..let me tell you, how you are handling this situation is not cool. if you don't change your ways YOU WILL LOSE YOUR GIRL, SIMPLE AS THAT.
if you have any hope of marrying this woman...TAKE MY ADVICE.
NOW IF YOU DON'T..JUST REMEMBER...I TOLD YOU SO.
i do hope you take my advice adams, i do.
__________________
I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!
