If I had my way, I'd make sure she had her orgasm first. It was my pattern to go down on them first until they had an orgasm. When they had theirs, the pressure was off, which allowed me to enjoy the following experience a great deal more.

My wife can't stand for me to go down on her for too long without wanting me in her. Regardless of who comes first, I feel it's my responsibility to make sure she at least finishes.