I cannot afford help, I also don't qualify for the 'free' help, it's a pretty sukky situation. I don't consider him a danger to our daughter, but I do feel paranoid about his daughter from a prev relationship, his kids do not like me as they were ordered by their mother from an early age to make life as hard as possible for me, they have done horrible things in the past to make me believe it was my husband that did it. His daughter is almost 18, I just dont trust b*****s around that age especially where she is concerned, I am sure she would find it hilarious fun to try hook him up with one of her skanky friends, my problem is what man is going to refuse that? I can't compete!